Sunday, 6 May 2018
Sunday, 24 December 2017
Charity for Sanggar Akar - 16 December 2017
An honour to have Audrey with us in this charity session. Together, we collected a total donation of Rp 2.650.000 for children of Sanggar Akar. May we all be happy.
Wednesday, 22 November 2017
Wednesday, 25 October 2017
Sunday, 15 October 2017
Monday, 17 April 2017
Thursday, 12 January 2017
Invitation to Silent Practice
“It is often in silence that we observe the most authentic communication taking place between people who are in love “ ~ Pope Benedict XVI
We talk a lot, all the time.
If not with others, we talk to ourselves.
If not out loud, we chat
incessantly in our heads.
And if not face to face, thanks to technology, we communicate all the time by texts.
Considering how speech makes a major part of our being, it is wise for us to have a look at how we do
this and see whether we are doing it
properly.
A scripture was recording
conversation that took place between the Buddha and a prince named Abhaya. It was
said that only words that are factual,
true, beneficial, endearing and
agreeable are worth saying. All these
qualities are to be perfected by proper time of saying, in sympathy for living
beings. Conventionally, this scripture has now become main reference for right speech in Buddhism.
However, if we were to apply those qualities to filter our day to day conversation, it seems that we would end
up with nothing or very few to say all day.
Is it best then for us to
stay in silence most of the time?
The Trappist monks of Roman
Catholic religious order have very inspiring practice on speech. They typically
have only three motivations to speak to one another - to get a particular work
project carried out efficiently, to engage in a community discussion, or to
discuss one’s spiritual progress with a director or confessor. While few of
them may take the vow of silence, in general, Trappist monasteries are very
quiet as the monks stay in silence most of the time in adherence to the
guideline for speech. So much so that it was common for people to get the wrong
impression and think that all monks of the order take silent vow. I, for one, used
to think so too.
“Silence enables us to be attentive to what is going on, to all the ups and downs” ~ Joseph Goldstein
I wonder if this is why the
rule of Saint Benedict encompasses silence in the first place, so those who
practice it are able to be fully attentive to what is going on. Then again, I could
probably say with more certainty, that this is one of the reasons talking, including
writing and reading, is generally not allowed in meditation retreats. I love the
silence imposed during retreats. There is a lot happening as I listen to my own internal chatters, that not having to talk to others is very restful. When the chatter
in my head begins to cease as well, it is pleasantly and peacefully quiet.
Curiously, this seems to be
rather challenging for many others. Of all other main rules in retreats,
silence is something that people in general would eventually desert. I never really
understand why.
It has been widely accepted
that the practice of Yoga and Meditation go hand in hand. That is, if they are
not actually the same thing. However, the modern practice of yoga currently
revolves mainly around physical postures. With this alone, it appeared to me that a lot have been omitted
tremendously from the original teaching, including guidelines for speech.
Each time I inquired on this matter, most teachers would only refer to the
well-known eight limbs from the renowned Yoga Sutra of Patanjali. The
sutra laid guidelines for daily conducts such as ahimsa (non-violence) and satya
(truthfulness) and so generally, the modern yoga tradition would apply these
guiding principles on speech.
While this is excellent, I
could not dismiss this nagging feeling that there should be much more into it
than merely the two principles. And I am happy to have discovered that there
really is.
Few months back, I was
introduced to the practice of Mouna
(sometimes spelled Mauna) by Yogi
Charu, a wonderful classic Hatha Yoga teacher. Back then, the practice was
introduced as kriya or cleansing for the tongue, which is a smart introduction
to those who are not used to silent practice.
So I looked it up and was
amazed by this practice of Mouna. And I am even more amazed (but not
surprised) that this practice did not get as much attention as other practices
in this era of modern yoga.
“Spiritual
aspirants must observe Mouna for some hours daily.” ~ Swami Sivananda
If we refer to the celebrated
saying of Pattabhi Jois - “Yoga is 99% practice and 1% theory”, how many of us, so-called yogi, would refer to the word ‘practice’ as anything other than
the rigorous asana practice? But look, apparently Mouna or silence is to be
observed daily. Moreover, it is for some hours, not 5 or 10 minutes.
The practice of Mouna can initiates simply as control of speech. At its highest form, referred to as maha mouna, the silence reaches the mind and all thoughts are completely annihilated. I suppose this is the very silence that embraces all our beings, which is usually still beyond our limited minds.
Unfortunately, humans nowadays are conditioned talk all the time. So, to stay really silent would actually be a hard work. I suppose that is why Swami Sivananda also pointed out that Mouna is tapas (discipline) of speech. For most of us, Mouna as discipline of speech alone is a good starting point.
At our own stage, it is possible to integrate the practice as much as we can. Stay clear from our not-so-smart phones, relax and enjoy the sky, or perhaps, sit still and
watch our breathes. Invite the practice of silence, discover the sound of silence. Thus hopefully, comes peace, with-in and with-out.
“Silence is
ever speaking.” ~ Sri Raman Maharshi
Friday, 7 October 2016
Monday, 12 September 2016
Indra's beautiful session for Taman Bacaan Pelangi
"Liberating"
"Beautiful"
"Touching"
"Different"
That is how Yoga with Indra is ...
Pleased to see happy faces afterwards, and hope the contributions light up many happy faces of beloved young ones who are supported by Taman Bacaan Pelangi.
And it was Kalyana's belated birthday celebration too, so enjoy the cupcakes :)
Sunday, 4 September 2016
Thursday, 11 August 2016
Sharing with Indrawati Widjanarko for Taman Bacaan Pelangi
Save the date! ~ 25th August 2016, 6:30pm
Sharing session for Taman Bacaan Pelangi by Indrawati Widjanarko
also with Decky Karunia
More about Indra
A loving and compassionate yoga
teacher, Indra has been teaching yoga for 17 years. She found her style of
teaching from the heart, leading others to get in touch with body, breath and
inner energy. Thus, her yoga practice is joyful as she incorporates movements, mudras, energy practice, healing sounds and mantras as well as other
visualization meditation.
Indra has been sharing in workshops and
retreats in China, Thailand, Malaysia and Indonesia, as well as festivals such
as Bali Spirit Festival, Xiamen Yoga Festival, Women’s Yoga Festival, Woodford
Folk Festival.
More about Taman Bacaan Pelangi
Taman
Bacaan Pelangi (The Rainbow Reading Garden) is an Indonesia-based
foundation that establishes community libraries in the remote areas of the
eastern regions of Indonesia, with the aim to increase the interest in reading
among children in the eastern regions of Indonesia and open their access to
storybooks.
Founded
in 2009, TB Pelangi now manages 39 community libraries in 15 islands in east
Indonesia, distributing more than 85,000 children storybooks, and touching the
life of more than 12,000 children of the age 5-13 years old.
TB Pelangi’s
vision is east Indonesian children who are intelligent, dare to dream, and are
able to realize their potentials, for their own sake and the sake of the
surrounding community at large.
~ Be Kind, Be Joyful, Be You ~
Monday, 20 June 2016
Meditation, a journey home
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“Depression is a common illness worldwide, with an estimated 350
million people affected.” ~ World Health Organization Fact Sheet,
April 2016
Over the years, studies have been conducted over benefits of
meditation and how it works. Most often cited benefits are related to the areas
of stress management, self control and concentration. There is an article in
Forbes by Alice Walton (2015), which neatly summarized various distinct researches
on how meditation affects our brain. There listed a few interesting conclusions
from the studies. Meditation was said to help preserve the aging brain, has
effects rival antidepressants for depression, decrease volume of brain cells
known to be responsible for fear, anxiety and stress, can help with addiction,
and it helps kids in school. These well meaning publications benefit many by
raising their awareness and interests in the practice. But as wisely
concluded in the article, meditation is not panacea.
This is an important statement for two main reasons. One of
the reasons being, meditation is a long
journey. It is not something that we practice overnight and then it washes
all our stresses away. In the world where people expect everything to be
straight forward and instant, this can be disappointing. Then, all the appealing
benefits are not the utmost outcome of meditation. While it is a simple
practice, how it works is never that straight forward.
It is perhaps acceptable to assume that most people relate
the word meditate to an image of someone sitting crossed legged with eyes
closed in deep concentration. This image is often used to represent peace and
calm. So much so that recently I was informed of a newly open premium resort
and spa with cozy meditation room as part of the facility. There was a person
sitting crossed legged depicted in their communication materials. In other
words, peace and calm equals meditation equals sitting cross legged.
Meanwhile, the same practice has also been introduced into
corporations as an aid to perform your duties more efficiently with less
stress, perhaps your key to success. Busy and ambitious corporate world, peace
and relaxing calm of resort and spa, seemingly rather on one end to another of
a spectrum, both claim to practice and benefit from meditation. Can it be so?
Yes, perhaps. Maybe not.
The thing is, meditation has become a word very loosely
applied everywhere. The meditation practice a hermit does in the Himalayan
mountains can be very much different from the short session offered in a cozy
set up with soft comfortable cushion, soothing smell of incense and calming
music in the background. The well intended spirit of bringing the practice into
daily life, or the so-called “off the cushion” practice, has turned almost
literally everything into meditation. While it truly is, and we shall talk a
bit more on this some other time, the idea can be a little confusing.
So what IS meditation? One of the most amusing questions that
not only a few people ask when I told them I just returned from one week
meditation retreat (or that I practice Yoga) is - “SO, you can levitate?” What and how exactly I was expected to
respond is still a mystery to me. Maybe I should seriously confirm so and see
what happens.
“I have been a seeker and I still am, but I stopped asking the books
and the stars. I started listening to the teaching of my Soul.” ~ Rumi
This is how I would define meditation, regardless of the
actual actions that are referred to as meditation; the art of listening to
ourselves, to the incessant chatter in our heads, drowning waves of emotions
and somewhere some time, the peaceful silence within. Being able to listen to
ourselves is a useful skill, from which we would understand what is happening
within this existence we casually refer to as ourselves.
“Meditation is putting aside altogether everything that man has
conceived of himself and the world.” ~ Jiddu Krishnamurti
In listening to myself, I discovered that everything I see,
I see it through frames. These frames were planted in our minds through our
ability to perceive and remember. All our previous experiences, habits and
norms imposed on us, all these forms solid frames. Trouble is, more often than
not, the lenses were either distorted or unclean so we do not see things the
way they are. And that includes the way we see others and ourselves. How often do we take ourselves as the wrecked person
inside our heads, which we relentlessly try to get rid of? Are we really all
that noise in our heads? Or are we really the exterior that we see, nurture and
entertain all the time? What about the idea that we are neither?
“Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we
can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.” ~
Bell Hooks
Habits are usually acted upon without us being aware that we
are doing it. It becomes natural and it has become natural for us to distract
ourselves all the time. Our gadgets and other electronic devices certainly play
a big part in this habit. What happen when we disconnect ourselves from
everything and everyone to simply be with ourselves? We start listening to the
voices within and learn to be in peace with it. This is the first step in
alleviating ourselves from the subtle constant unease of wanting to be anywhere
but here, to be with anyone else but oneself. We learn to be content and cease
looking outwards to escape from our very selves, from whatever is at any given
moment.
There is a saying that I really like:
“You should sit in meditation for 20 minutes a day, unless you’re too busy;
then you should sit for an hour” ~ old Zen saying
Seriously, 20 minutes? Surely, in the beginning it can be
very challenging to this mind to sit still with something as boring as breaths.
A widely used term to describe this restless nature of mind is ‘monkey mind’, indicating
how the mind incessantly jumps from one thing to another, all the time. An old
friend of mine prefers to see it as puppies instead of monkey. With no
particular reasons, I am with him. It is easier to see the mind as restless
puppies (than monkey), which just need a bit of watching until they get tired
and then decide to rest.
That is exactly why the Zen saying proposed an hour if we
are too busy. The busier we are, the more excited the mind become, the more
restless the puppies are. It would take longer for the mind to finally give it
a rest and begin to settle into the moment.
As the mind settles, perhaps, we would stumble into
something grander than the mundane, something unknown to this busy limited
mind. Otherwise, it is a beautiful practice nonetheless.
A pleasant walk, a journey home….
“The birds have vanished down the sky.
Now the last cloud drains away
We sit together, the mountain and I,
Until only the
mountain remains.”
~ Li Po
Sunday, 5 June 2016
Wednesday, 11 May 2016
Give Love
"Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier."
~ Mother Teresa
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| From Graduation to Continuation - from the mat to prisons, Non-profit organisations for street children and school for children with special needs |
It is only our greatest pleasure to see Organik Yoga TT graduates spreading love everywhere. That IS Yoga practice, off the mat. Looking forward to see you all flourishing in kindness, immersed in goodness.
Give love, give only love.....
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